Be The Positive

Be The Positive
"Be The Change You Want to See In The World" I want to be a positive change. I will Be The Positive!

April 4, 2014

My Positive Influence

When baby #4 was born, I had my girl (after 3 boys). I know I need to be a good example to her. I want to show her the joy of being a woman and the pleasures of motherhood. I want to her to see a woman that is continually progressing and learning new things. My stay-at-home mom never settled for the bon-bon and daytime television stereotype. My Mother was always doing things to progress, to take care of our family and home, and participating in all our activities. I remember her Jane Fonda work outs, holiday crafts for decorating our home, helping other mom’s by babysitting and delivering dinners and goodies, substitute teaching at our school, coming to my piano and dance recitals, attending my brother’s sporting events, and planning weddings,traveling with the love of her life (my dad!)all over the country and world. She was always supportive of my dad’s military career and school administration career, when we were all in school she accepted a full-time teaching position, and while working she went back to school for her Master’s Degree in School Administration, and became a school principal, with all that she still travels to visit and participate in her grandkids lives. And she continues to progress even when retiring. My parents will soon be serving a full-time mission for our church in Tonga. My mom never called it quits, and we gave her plenty of excuses to! She was always progressing in knowledge, adventures, and love. That is the mom I want to be; the mom that teaches her children to keep learning and progressing, while enjoying her family and home. Thanks Mom for being a positive in my life!! My mom holding my daughter and helping with my boys. She is The Best Mom & Grandma!! My daughter, Me, My Mom, and Her Mom. How awesome to have amazing generations together!

Loved reading this Huffington Post article this morning.

This should be our reaction EVERYTIME. On both sides. I LOVE stories like this!! Article: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/andrea-gardner/to-the-woman-behind-me-in_b_5082769.html

Sent by Alyson

My Life Evolving

I suffered from post-partum depression after my second child was born. I don’t want to ever be that mom, wife, or woman again. I didn’t recognize myself. I felt so much sadness and anger, and quit trying to be happy. I didn’t care if anyone else was happy either. What family wants to live like that? Thankfully, not mine. I had a husband who could see the negativity & protected my boys from it. He was kind enough to listen & to offer support. I was so worried he would shun me for being less than the perfect wife & mother. He tried to understand, even though I didn’t. We looked up information on line & went into the Dr. together. Sure enough it was depression & my husband didn’t cast me away or lock me in a rubber room. We accepted the diagnosis; we tried the medication and recommendations from the Doctor. 4 months later it was under control, and a couple months after that the Doctor weaned me off the medication. Sometimes I can feel & see similar symptoms creeping into my mind or daily life. I refuse to let that woman come back. I keep searching for things to better myself, my family, and my home. I’m not saying I have it figured out, but our family is still together and most days happy.